My problem

Well, im in an emotionally disturbed situation right now... I was going on with my happy life, going to my happy computer so i can talk happy with my happy skullknight friends....

When i got to my computer room, i suddenly found my bro jacking off, discracing our name as a jack off.

When i talked to him he was real sad and stuff and said he cant stop

I said "of course, us boys are gonna get puberty sooner or later".... but then when i looked at the screen...

THERE WAS GAY PORN ON THE SCREEN!!!!

I know from my past posts that i have shown hatred to gays, and i dispise them without question. But now to think... my own flesh and blood is gay? Jesus, it fucking scares me. I need help on what to do, because im still his brother, even if hes gay it wont change that.

hmmm... C'mon, even Fred Phelps has a gay relative. Deal with it. There is even the ever so slight that this brother of yours is simply experimenting.

Heheheh, i must say i found those little pics to be rather funny while explaining your story.
Maybe he just has tendencies, although in any case its not that bigger deal if he is or not is it? Im sure it can be hard to get used to but maybe this will give you an opportunity to mature a little and get over your little gay bashing stage.

How would your parents take it if he is indeed gay, what will they say to that? Are they homophobes also? In any case it doesnt mean you have to sacrifice much to just say to your brother its ok and your still his brother, I mean christ even if you really could never accept it, you said yourself your still his brother so those words would make all the difference to him.

Oh man I feel sorry for you Demon X. I guess there's no choice but to put him out of his misery. I would suggest when his sleeping get a pillow and sufficate him while yelling "OH LORDY LORD FORGIVE THIS SINNER FOR JERKING OFF HIS 3 INCH DICK OFF TO BEASTIALITY GAY PORN". ;D

what can i say? Learn to deal with it. And hey, think of it this way. Now you can truly find out if you turn gay by too much exposure to gays. After all, you're living with one.

Anyways, does his being gay change who he is in any way? Is he a different person than the person he was yesterday because of it?

ZODDGUTS said:

Oh man I feel sorry for you Demon X. I guess there's no choice but to put him out of his misery. I would suggest when his sleeping get a pillow and sufficate him while yelling "OH LORDY LORD FORGIVE THIS SINNER FOR JERKING OFF HIS 3 INCH DICK OFF TO BEASTIALITY GAY PORN". ;D

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This comming from a person who only has had sex with his hand???
"Sorry man...really I am, but that aint funny dude..."


  For u Demon X... Your brother is gonna need you probably now more than ever.  This is just an example of how life can put U to the test.  We cant tell u what to do,  same for u and your brother, but we can all just try to understand...

Zoodguts, Im not trying to pick an argument with ya' or anything dont get me wrong... But in this situations, it will b wise ta' think before u write something. I hope we can just leave it like this...
-Peace b with ya'

DemonX said:

Well, im in an emotionally disturbed situation right now... I was going on with my happy life, going to my happy computer so i can talk happy with my happy skullknight friends....

When i got to my computer room, i suddenly found my bro jacking off, discracing our name as a jack off.

When i talked to him he was real sad and stuff and said he cant stop

I said "of course, us boys are gonna get puberty sooner or later".... but then when i looked at the screen...

THERE WAS GAY PORN ON THE SCREEN!!!!

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LMAO at those pictures, you just made my day dude. ;D

But seriously, talk to your brother. Tell him how you feel and find out how he feels. There is a slight chance he may be experimenting. If he is gay though your probably the first person to find out and so you should at least try to be understanding and support your brother.

Should i say unlucky? Or should i say lucky that you find out early and you are able to correct his mindset...? Let me tell me one thing, watching gay porn doesnt necessary mean 100% gay, he may be just curious to find out what it is like... Like me, i watch gay porn and even bestiality in the past, but i am still a normal person who fantasize gals :)





Perhap one of the most difficult decision to make is whether are you telling your parent or not? It is better to consult your brother before doing anything, such things are very sensitive... One wrong move might lead him even to suicide...



Guide him if you are able to... And pls make sure no one knows about it, dun tell your friend or stuff like that

Smith said:

Guide him if you are able to... And pls make sure no one knows about it, dun tell your friend or stuff like that

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Yeah its bad enough all your friends on the net know, hope the poor kid never comes here.

Nomad said:

This comming from a person who only has had sex with his hand???
"Sorry man...really I am, but that aint funny dude..."

Zoodguts, Im not trying to pick an argument with ya' or anything dont get me wrong... But in this situations, it will b wise ta' think before u write something. I hope we can just leave it like this...
-Peace b with ya'

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Well I didn't take Demon X post seriously especially with all those drawing he drew. But if the thing he said about his brother is true then I guess I gotta say I'm sorry for acting like a jackass.

Now if what Demon X said is true ,should he tell his parents? Probably not this is something that his brother needs to tell his parents when he feels his ready to tell them.

Maybe you could join your brother, huh? A little "sibling bonding". ;)

Renegade said:

Maybe you could join your brother, huh? A little "sibling bonding". ;)

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I don't get it ..... wait wait ooohh I get it now. ;D

How would your parents take it if he is indeed gay, what will they say to that?

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No, if i told them that would be the worst thing i could ever do to him...

Are they homophobes also?

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Yes


Anyways thanks for the responses, i get the idea that i have to talk to him, but how? He knows more then anyone else how much i am against gays (aside from my dad). Im afraid that everything i say might sound fake to him. I would NEVER tell our parents about that, because who knows what will happen. I really hope it was just experimenting...

If you found out that he really were gay would it change the way you feel about him? Would your parents (and you) disown him because he chose to live his live the way he wants?

I'm not a religious person, and I'm not against homosexuals, nor do I think it's what was intended. I suppose it's hard on you coming to this conclusion. I'm not a homophobe, but if I found out that my brother or son was gay I would never look at him the same way. Not that I would hate him, I would just feel differently.

My advice is to talk to him and try to understand him. If you were to see it through his eyes, maybe you'd understand it a little better. Remember, hatred can only go so far.

Well thats certainly an interesting story Demon... and you illustrate it so well, lol ;D

Perhaps you should doing some reading on homosexuality and try to become more informed on the subject than simply "despising gays." (i really am not trying to come off arrogant just stating this as an option)

Maybe read this and the countless other tomes of literature you can find on the subject.

http://radicalacademy.com/homosexuality.htm

There are serveral possibilities, he could have been experimenting, maybes hes truely homosexual, or maybe hes just curious. I'd suggest talking to him about it and don't tell anyone about it. If he is gay and isn't ready to come out about it you could completely devastate him. Bottom line is would he be a different person even if he is homosexual? Nope. Only thing that changes is how you view that person.

btw... love the pics.. hehe

How old is your brother? I know if i ever saw my brother doing something like that id jsut walk out, and yeah id never look at him the same way but not hate him. You should go up to him with a picture of a hot girl and say dont you think shes hot. Whatever his response is look at his eyes, you will be able to tell if hes lieing or not. Im not for gays but hey let them do what they want just not around me.

Malf said:

You should go up to him with a picture of a hot girl and say dont you think shes hot. Whatever his response is look at his eyes, you will be able to tell if hes lieing or not.

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Or he could just ask his brother what his sexual orientation is.

Hmmmm. Well, while i take a logical standpoint against homosexuality (I believe people need to pass on their genes) I think a word of advice is in order.

Your brother may or may not be a homosexual, time will tell. The thing to do is not meddle with him in the mean time. Yes, you can pry as to how he really feels but don't try to change it. And if he decides he is you'll, although reluctantly, have to support him and help him get your parents to understand. If not, he's liable to go into a depression or commit suicide. I am just laying out what can statistically happen so don't be too frightened. Just be prepared.

Aconyro said:

Hmmmm. Well, while i take a logical standpoint against homosexuality (I believe people need to pass on their genes) I think a word of advice is in order.

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One could easily argue that the world is overpopulated and a decrease in the % of reproduceing pairs could be a good thing.

That was a hysterically funny set of drawings. But underneath the humor is a more serious and certainly darker tone. Open discussion with your brother is necessary. And of course just because someone gets turned on by gay or lesbian porn doesn't make them gay or lesbian.

Majin Tenshi said:

One could easily argue that the world is overpopulated and a decrease in the % of reproduceing pairs could be a good thing.

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I really can't disagree with that, and since we are talking about a brother, some alternate logic I once heard might apply.

I heard a theory once that if at least one sibling passes on their genes than the task should be considered accomplished. It was called something that I can't remember currently. However, it suggests that as long as one helps one of their siblings to survive to have children it constitutes survival of the family's genes. Therefore, one does not have to pass one's genes personally; they only need nieces or nephews. Hence two people can make one person equaling population decrease (As long as this only child passes genes also the family is still considered fit).This may apply to this situation. In other words, to this, it does not matter if he is as long as DemonX is not.

Well if you had a fine relationship with your brother before this, i think you should keep it that way, he is still the same person you have always know. His sexual orientation haves nothing to do with you or your family but his well being does. I bet you he needs you more than ever so you should be there for him. Talk to him.

Aconyro said:

Hmmmm. Well, while i take a logical standpoint against homosexuality (I believe people need to pass on their genes) I think a word of advice is in order.

Your brother may or may not be a homosexual, time will tell. The thing to do is not meddle with him in the mean time. Yes, you can pry as to how he really feels but don't try to change it. And if he decides he is you'll, although reluctantly, have to support him and help him get your parents to understand. If not, he's liable to go into a depression or commit suicide. I am just laying out what can statistically happen so don't be too frightened. Just be prepared.

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that was amusing. Honestly I think the world is over populated, let the homosexuals do their thing, the less reproduction the better.


as for him being gay. Well it turns out straight me are moreso aroused my gay porn. just something to think about. but honestly catching someone in my family masturbating wouldn't freak me out. It'd give me alot to tease them with. But I'd just ask him whats up. Tell him you're cool with it and just don't sweat it, he's your brother, he wont do shit to you. Just get used to the idea and it'll be fine. Remember, Blood is thicker then wine, your family will be there for you, so be there for them.

You should go up to him with a picture of a hot girl and say dont you think shes hot.

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This is not a guess and check situation. If i do that, wouldn't he think im making fun of him or somthing? I would hate looking like a little softie, because im not one of those "poor thing i think we should kiss his ass" sort of person. I think i might even make it worse. I mean think about it, you have a problem, and everyone starts feeling sorry for you and kissing your ass? Thats the media's job.

I have thinking of action, because of course action speaks louder then words. Kinda like the

You should go up to him with a picture of a hot girl and say dont you think shes hot.

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kind of action, but not quite. Im not gonna try to offend him, but maybe try to get him interested in girls by like hooking him up with a girl. Then maybe ill talk to him. If none of these work maybe ill just have to live with it. I dont know. My view of him hasn't changed, like all of you say. He is still my bro, i have helped him though alot, and he has helped me. This situation doesn't really make things different.

DemonX, as far as I can tell from being in the same forum as you for however many months you seem like a decent person, and its clear that your strong homophobia has come from your parents without much doubt.

Im sure this is hard for you, but you have no idea how hard it is for him right now, this will probably be a large burdon at the back of his mind for a long time to come, i mean my parents would be upset if i was gay but i know they wouldnt hate me for it, even with that i couldnt think of anything worse, it would be horrible in this or any western society to live with but this poor bastard is probably worried about being hated by his own flesh and blood.

Familys have always been known to disown children for shit like this in real life, they forget it could have easily been them or you who found themselves more taken for the same sex so very easily, simply dealt a bad set of cards in the genetic makeup process but lifes a bitch at times.

If I were you or him i would have no intentions of telling your parents about it, not until he is long independent from them anyway. I think this will be a good chance for you to lose your irrational homophobia. Think about if he is gay, what will change? He will have sex with guys instead of women, so what?