How do you go after the one you love?

How you guys/gals go after someone you have crush in?



An interesting question I would suppose... Especially to those who already have a stead... Just curious to how you all do it..






It would be best if you can give some advice... Hehe :guts:
 

CnC

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

already have a stead? You mean you're asking those who are in a relationship now? or the guy/girl you have a crush "on" is already in a relationship?

Can't say I have too much experience with the latter question. But as to "meeting" people, the easy way is to TALK to them... :schierke:(seriously, people don't do that)

As far as specifics go, just be confident and yourself...

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100 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN
Source: Maxim Magazine

**100 Girls always having something king of wrong, like headache or carmping or something. Remember: No matter how bad it sounds, she's going to outlive you.

** 99 Most women will not have sex for the first time with a guy unless their legs are shaved. If your date shows up and you spot stubble, she's trying to keep herself in line.

** 98 No matter how much she reassures you, if you can't get a hard-on she assumes you're not attractedto her.

** 97 Beware of your girlfriends' single party friend or gay bud. They want her to be single with them and will encourage any bad behavior as often as possible.

** 96 Jewelry. Now you always know what to get her for a last-minute gift.

** 95 The sight of you in your socks and underwear is the biggest turnoff in the world.

** 94 Never trust a girl who has no girlfriends. She does'nt get along with other women because she's either bat-shit crazy or just plain mean.

** 93 Girls who say, "I love sports!" are lying. Girls who ask you what time the game is on, without specifying which game they're talking about, are not.

** 92 A random hookup is more likely to result in pregnancy, because a woman has more sex when she's not fertile.

** 91 She still has alal the love letters and cards from her past boyfriends.

** 90 Just started dating? Women wants you to drive it it's their car.

** 89 A girl would prefer to get a $100 gift from Tiffany & Co. than a $500 gift from Fortunoff. Why? Because her friends will ask where she got it.

** 88 " If I give you my number on Friday, Tuesday and Wednesday are your best bets to score a date. Monday is too desperate, Thursday is too late."

** 87 Your female coworkers are obsessed with the fact that on average they receive less pay than male counterparts -- and the fact that they work less overtime and get pregnant is irrelevant to the discussion.

** 86 Laying a towel down over the wet spot is like putting your jacket over a mud puddle for her, you noble bastard.

** 85 A recent study reveald that natural blondes could be extinct in 200 years, so unless she's Norwegian, her towhead might be bottled.

** 84 Sixteen percent of American men have been with a prostitute -- scientific proof most women are decent in bed.

** 83 Women always want to believe what you're saying is true.

** 82 What do women really want in bed? More blankets. They get colder than men.

** 81 The threesome is not about you; it's about the two girls. If you're lucky enough to score with one with your girlfriend, enjoy sex with the other one because there's a good chance it'll end the relationship.

** 80 If women have an excuse to take a pill, they'll take it.

** 79 Never trust the woman who gives you the best blow job you've ever had.

** 78 "I hate when my boyfriend is sweaty and tries to lie down on top of me or cuddle after I've come. Wait five minutes."

** 77 The average woman kisses 79 men before getting married.

** 76 She hates your Xbox more than she lets on. Blow her off for some gaming and she'll soon stop wasting time on a dork like you.

** 75 Women who are obsessed with their dogs also like to keep their men on a short leash.

** 74 "Girls who buy their men lap dances and pretend to enjoy it are kidding themselves. They're trying to keep him happy with some controlled freedom".

** 73 Over the course of her life, a woman will use 10 men for every one she loves. If you lent her your car or helped her move and did'nt get laid, you're one of the 10.

** 72 During enmergencies, women are likely to remain calmer than men. Though it should be noted that inventing minor crises on a weekly basis gives them more practice.

** 71 "Women grow hairs in a lot of the same places that men do -- lower abdomen, nipples -- we just get rid of them".

** 70 Unless they're lesbians, she won't approve of you hanging out with other girls. Even if they're ugly. And really, even if they're lesbians.

** 69 If you have something to hide, she'll find it.

** 68 Eighty-five: The number of males per 100 females in Gary, Indiana, lowest male-to-female ration of any city with a populatiuon of 100,000 plus. The highest male-to-female ratio is in Salinas, California: 114 males for every 100 females.

** 67 Kiss her before two dates have gone by or you'll be "Friended".

** 66 They can't live without tensions. Every once in a while, she's gonna pick a fight with you for no reason. Accept this as a running, inevitable theme and your relationship will make a lot more sense.

** 65 The most painless way to end an argument: LETT HER WIN.

** 64 An online dating sevices's survey found that a woman's ideal man has brown hair and blue eyes.

** 63 In the U.S., 21 percent of women ages 18 to 59 hold out for their honeymoon.

** 62 A British study claims a woman's chances of getting married drop by 40 percent for every 16-point rise in her IQ. The same increase in IQ for a man boosted his chances of getting married by 35 percent.

** 61 When a woman often cite manhandling of breasts as the biggest foreplay faux pas.

** 60 When a woman tells you her problems, she does not want you to offer solution.

** 59 "When I'm drunk, I can't come. Not even with a vibrator".

** 58 If they're going to do it, most wives cheat between the ages of 18 and 29.

** 57 Most women think they're better drivers that they are. Don't point this out while shes' at the wheel or she'll freak and crash.

** 56 Women ingest about half the lipstick they apply, which means they eat approximately one to three sticks per year.

** 55 The best looking women often possess the least self-confidence.

** 54 A woman might say she just wants sex, but sleep with her for a while and she'll change her tune. "I've known so many women who think they can pull this off, but they always develop feeling for the guy".

** 53 According to the American Association of Facial Plastic and Reconstruction Surgery, Angelina Jolie's lips were the most requested celebrity feature among all female patients in 2004.

** 52 Despite always complimenting another women's short haircut, she secretly celbrates having one less competitor, since men prefer long hair.

** 51 Don't call her "cute" in her mind it's the same as "Not vomit-inducing". "Sexy", OK. "Hot", yes. "Fucking awesome", only if she's at least slightly buzzed.

** 50 Women often buy shoes a size or two small because they're in denial about the size of their feet - which they can't stand.

** 49 They dream of one day peeing in a urinal.

** 48 Women know where they stand lookswise but worry about being considered cool, about which they're unsure.

** 47 According to U.S. Bureau of Statistics, 23 percent fo 18 to 34 year old women live with their parents, versus 31 percent of you losers.

** 46 Women want to talk dirty, but they're afraid you won't respect them in the morning. Reassure her that letting go in bed doe'snt make her less calssy and she'll probably go wild.

** 45 Twenty three percent of this magazine's readers are women.

** 44 A psycho jealous girl will do anything to keep her man -- including anal.

** 43 About 40 percent of women still call their father Daddy.

** 42 The only way girls who don't know each other can start a conversation and signal that they're nonthreatening is to compliment one abother's clothes, shoes, jewelry, or hair. To become BFF, a common enemy is needed.

** 41 If she suddenly cuts her hair short, it might mean she no longer cares what you think of her. But that does'nt mean she does'nt care about someone else's opinion.

** 40 About half of all brides will lose a good friend over a ridiculous bridesmaid squabble.

** 39 It never hurts to say you're sorry, even if you don't mean it.

** 38 Let her eat you at something once in a while -- poker, chess, pingpong -- and she'll more likely to give you what you want, like some peace and quiteness.

** 37 Women' public bathrooms are about three times more disgusting than men's.

** 36 "At one point or another, I've gone through your things looking for any evidence from past relationships. I'm talking photographs, postcards, ementos, address books, diaries. If you don't like it, get rid of this stuff before letting me in your apartment. It's not about trust; it's about curiosity, and it drives us all carzy till it's been satiated."

** 35 Like you, girls hate nothing more than a clingy partner who needs them every eight seconds.

** 34 Chick rock strikes a deeply primal chord inside women while simultaneously revolting men. Just let her sing.

** 33 The average woman owns eight bras and wears each one five times before washing.

** 32 Girls will not sit on any toilet outside their own home or a five star hotl. Everywhere else they're hovering above the toilet in a squat.

** 31 Got a new girl coming over? Your (tidy) bathroom should include clean linen, a box of puff plus, and severl full rolls of TP.

** 30 "Don't caress our faces while we're kissing, unless you really, really, really like us".

** 29 On a first date, women never order what they want to eat.

** 28 Breast augmentation surgery has rwon by 257 percent since 1997. The most popula size is C-cup. As if you didn't know.

** 27 Gain her trust when you're out by calling her at 10 P.M. She'll go to bed content you're thinking of her, even if you're slurping Jell-O shots off some skank's cleavage.

** 26 Put down the Drakkar and grab a box of Good & Plenty. Women are turned on by the scent of black licorice.

** 25 At least one of her friends wants to sleep with you.

** 24 A good but flawed man is fixer-upper gem, and women love nothing more than home improvements.

** 23 Every woman is self-conscious about her ass. Tell her you love her ass and you'll see it more often.

** 22 If you want more sex, tell your girl an attractive woman hit on you that day. Sixty percent of the time, it works every time.

** 21 More than half of surveyed females between 18 and 25 would prefer to be run over by a truck than be fat.

** 20 All women think they're smarter than their partners in some significant way.

** 19 The more piercing she has, the more places she'll let you put it

** 18 Once in a while, let her pick the movie and don't complain about it.

** 17 Any good woman will tell ya, honesty is not always the best policy.

** 16 Chicks aren't afraid to get kinky, you just have to have the nerve to ask.

** 15 Girls dont want to date doomats. So make her proud and refuse to give up bowling night with the guys.

** 14 Don't take a woman to a concert you really want to see -- she'll just want to leae early.

** 13 "Women appreciate a big penis, but having one does'nt give you an excuse to suck at foreplay".

** 12 Studies show women are more attrracted to "macho" guys near ovulation. The rest of the month, they're drwan to "good providers", otherwise known as chumps.

** 11 She likes one of your friends.

** 10 Ugly girls like to hang out with pretty girls because itmakes them feel like they're more attrractive. Pretty girls hang out with ugly girls for the same reason.

** 09 The minute she decides she's even mildly interested in you, she starts making mental pictures of what you kids would look like and imagining her first name with your last.

** 08 Sixty percent of women in the U.S. color their hair, according to L'Oreal.

** 07 Datea a striper? Keep your mouth shut, stupid.

** 06 Female serila killers tend to use poison rather than guns and knives.

** 05 Rub a sheet of medium grade sandpaper across your face. That's five o'clock shadow when you kiss her. Now rub that sandpaper on your inner thigh.

** 04 Foghat's "slow ride" is not about a trip in the car. Get the hint?

** 03 The one breakup line she'll never be able to argue you out of . "I'm sorry, but I nolonger have feelings for you".

** 02 Buying a present for your girl? She'll hate it (and you) if she finds out you took along another woman to help pick it out.

** 01 You'll probably never know how many guyss she's slep with. The standard lie is five. Which really means about 12.

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But seriously, I got the girl by being her friend for 2 years, whilst praying for a breakup between her and her boyfriend.
I can't really give you any "winning" lines.
It's alot easier (to get the girl) than it would seem.
It just takes time.
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

CnC said:
already have a stead? You mean you're asking those who are in a relationship now? or the guy/girl you have a crush "on" is already in a relationship?


I mean those who have boyfriend or girlfriend... How to you initally go after him/her... It cant be you walk straight to that person and said: I wan to be your bf/gf and after that in a relationship already... lol...



And yeah... Going after someone... Apparently not successfully... :(

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rené said:
But seriously, I got the girl by being her friend for 2 years, whilst praying for a breakup between her and her boyfriend.

Omg so concidence? That was exactly my case... though mine is one year... Then again that kind of feeling really suck even though i never wish they would breakup (It would be too selfish as I am the third party)


Btw point 60 noted and I fully agree with point 55 lol :serpico:
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

Hah, interesting thread.

Sorry Smith but personally I can't give you any decent information on the matter personally; I live a pretty isolated life these days and have little social interaction with the opposite sex outside basic chit chat, so my interest in women hasn't had a chance to go any further than checking out women on trains and trams on the way to school.

Good luck with whoever you're going for, talking is the first step to the mating ritual so I'm told, I don't really have much to say generally so yeah.... prehaps you have more to talk about with them. ;)
 
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Smith said:
I thought you have girlfriend? :eek:

Nah, I had a love interest for a while, that didn't go anywhere. I'm alone but thats not such a bad thing, other priorities at the moment.
Still I kind of remember the feeling of being with someone is nice warm pleasent feeling, good luck if you find it. Who's yours Smith?
 
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Sparnage said:
good luck if you find it. Who's yours Smith?


Sob... I am not so lucky... As i mention she got Boyfriend :judo:


But then i would agree that kind of feeling is very nice... Though there is still an arm length between us... Sigh...
 
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Smith said:
Sob... I am not so lucky... As i mention he got Boyfriend  :judo:


But then i would agree that kind of feeling is very nice... Though there is still an arm length between us... Sigh...

Disconnecting the tie with the person when it seems there is no hope of anything coming from it can be very hard but is often the best solution to truely start getting over your emotions. That is unless you think it still may work out, but that may just prolong the pain if you're mistaken. I wish I knew this before with my situation.

Haha, maybe you shouldn't listen to my cynical mouth though. ;D
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

A missing 'S' in my quote make a big different....




Anyway I have tried... But still I can't get over it... Each time I see her... I will still try to get close with her...


I think mine case wasnt smooth... How I hope i can be like Majority... Not liking someone whom there is already no hope...
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

#85, study showing blondes could become extinct was a hoax.

Also, if you're really in love with a girl you'll be more persistent. Don't let one failure get you down. Call her up at 3am to ask her how she's doing. Leave sweet lovenotes for her written in the snow with cherry nyquil. You know the drill.
 

CnC

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Denial said:
#85, study showing blondes could become extinct was a hoax.

Also, if you're really in love with a girl you'll be more persistent. Don't let one failure get you down. Call her up at 3am to ask her how she's doing. Leave sweet lovenotes for her written in the snow with cherry nyquil. You know the drill.

Sleep outside her house in the bushes, occasionally write her name in your own blood on random surfaces she'd see along her daily commute. She'll understand your devotion.
 
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CnC said:
Sleep outside her house in the bushes, occasionally write her name in your own blood on random surfaces she'd see along her daily commute. She'll understand your devotion.

Is that how you go after your love?... If that is the case I wuoldnt expect you to be able to post here for long... :judo:
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

Well Smith, ur timing in making this thread makes me laugh. Last night i hung out with a girl i've been chillin with for like almost 2 months now....and yest we got dinner and wound up back at my place to watch a movie...so we watched it and when it was over we just chillin on my bed and I just asked her "So what's the deal with you?" She laughed and instantly knew wut I meant...few minutes later i asked her out......maybe a bad move on my part.....JK!!!!!
If you need advice...I'd say the usual, be urself and be cool....U gotta be urself because...well u just have to, plus it's not healthy for u to put on an act. An start out 'friendly', don't try and be rico suave all up in their faces.....hang back, crack some jokes and get them to like 'u'.   
Shit, I'm so fuckin late for class.....check u lataz!!!

P.S. I have tons of 'girl' friends and they all tell me the same.....alot of girls even if they like u, will kinda test u to see how 'interested' u really are......or so they tell me.
 
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Proj2501 said:
alot of girls even if they like u


Haha... I doubt I will have that fortune... Hahaha...


Anyway if they wan to see how interested I am to her... Isnt that meaning I have to act?
 

Aazealh

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

Don't cling to a girl that's with another guy Smith, that's not healthy (especially if they're happy together). There are enough girls out there for you to find another one you'll like even more. :void:

As for how to date, what a question really... Let her know you're interested in her but don't try too hard, and make yourself attractive. Also, don't underestimate yourself. If you think you're a loser, other people will think so too.
 

Walter

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

You should mention you're active on internet forums. Chicks love it.

What else... hm... Confidence is key. Make eye contact, be passionate in conversation, but natural. Don't put on airs or try to be something you aren't, because even if you succeed, you'll just bring out the wrong qualities in her in the beginning and it'll be a mess later on.

And keep the keys to her chains out of arm's reach at all times. That screwed me last time... Keeping them in different wings of the house is a good idea.
 
Re: How do you go after the one u love?

There is no such thing as true friendship between man and women. My wife was my friend and we even went through the whole "i just dont want to ruin our friendship" thing... ah ha ha ho ho he ha haa!!!

My advice: you will have to be her friend until it hurts. Then you both agree that you need time apart. Then she will realize how much it sucks not having you around. Then repeat 3 or for more times. Then success.

At least thats my understanding of the mating ritual...

:guts:
 
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Aazealh said:
Don't cling to a girl that's with another guy Smith, that's not healthy (especially if they're happy together). There are enough girls out there for you to find another one you'll like even more. :void:


Haha quite true... However that not easy... Tried already... Failed..



Oh yea... Why dont u share your idea how you got yours anyway? (Wait a min... are you still single? :p)
 

SaiyajinNoOuji

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

If you can dance or even if you cant, dance with Confidence.... worked for me! :guts: That and the daily shots that I give my wife... she never knows! :troll:
 

CnC

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

Smith said:
Oh yea... Why dont u share your idea how you got yours anyway? (Wait a min... are you still single? :p)

LoL :schierke:

Be sure to introduce yourself as having a high post count on a fan website dedicated to a Japanese manga. Its a real icebreaker!
And if you get tired of waiting for them to split up, the boyfriend could alway have an unfortunate accident involving a head-on collision with a moving crowbar. There's hope...
 

Aazealh

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Smith said:
Haha quite true... However that not easy... Tried already... Failed..

Try again then.

Smith said:
Oh yea... Why dont u share your idea how you got yours anyway? (Wait a min... are you still single? :p)

What, me? I'm married... :schierke: And what do you want to know exactly? An "idea" of how to get a girlfriend?
 

SimplyEd

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Re: How do you go after the one u love?

Aazealh said:
What, me? I'm married... :schierke: And what do you want to know exactly? An "idea" of how to get a girlfriend?

Maybe a step-by-step walkthrough with coloured images and nifty gimmicks as a bonus would be in order here? A nice title would be "Galfaqs", no?

Anyway, as it was stated above countless times, the most important virtue here is confidence and persistence. Be yourself and nobody else, it's RL after all and not a comfortable message board^^
 

Aazealh

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SimplyEd said:
Maybe a step-by-step walkthrough with coloured images and nifty gimmicks as a bonus would be in order here?

If you pay me, I can do it.
 
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