typhonblue
Feminism--making the world safe for bigotry
Lady Griffith said:What if you did find out he cheated? Kill him? Dump his ass? Put up with it?
Probably aplaud him for his ingenuity and speed. And dump him. Cheating is wrong. But everyone's defintion of cheating is different.
Personally I never cared what a guy did behind my back. My feeling is...if he thinks he can get something better or prettier or whatever, or doesn't like my underwear, he can go somewhere else and it isn't my loss.
Here here. I agree. I don't think it's worth my time to hold onto a guy by my fingernails.
I've been to swingers' places and let me tell you...you don't really want go. It may just be me but my idea of fun is not to look down on the floor of the main party room and have it look like egg drop soup to me. It's just really dirty and the people are UGHly.
I have been to a poly/swinger club and I'd have to agree. Spent the whole night being drooled on by a drunken arse three times my age with the slimy, slick demenor of a life insurance salesman. His wife looked better, but also prim and uptight. He'd obviously dragged her there. Except for them and the triple that ran the club, it was nearly dead. We left at 8, begging illness.
Never went back. It's better to meet people though common, non-sexual intrests I think.